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My girlfriend thinks penises are ugly and says it’s no offense to me

My girlfriend and I are both in our mid twenties and been dating for almost ten years now. She had always believed that penises are ugly - and she …

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My girlfriend thinks penises are ugly and says it’s no offense to me - but I still hurts me

Posted by u/tillerjoe 3 years ago

My girlfriend thinks penises are ugly and says it’s no offense to me - but I still hurts me

My girlfriend and I are both in our mid twenties and been dating for almost ten years now.

She had always believed that penises are ugly - and she is very vocal about it.

Whenever she has friends over for brunch, and her friends discuss their Tinder hookups and their penis size/shape/etc, she always makes a comment about how “dicks are disgusting yuck”.

I’ve told her that this makes me feel uncomfortable because I feel like all bodies are supposed to be beautiful bodies - especially the one that belongs to someone you love?

Well doesn’t matter. She even says that my penis is ugly but that “she puts up with it because she loves me” but if we weren’t dating then she would say it’s nasty.

I don’t go around talking about how vaginas or boobs or periods are disgusting yet she does the same thing for penises.

I guess idk I feel like maybe I’m dating a misandrist.

Is this a normal feeling that women have about the male body and genitalia?

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level 1 Instanteternity · 3 yr. ago

I’ve heard other females say this about men to me and I have heard men body shame women with “ugly” vaginas. So, unfortunately she isn’t alone. Both are a reflection of their immaturity and lack of respect for the opposite sex and human form. Always just makes me feel a bit sad for them because they are truly missing out on the beauty that comes with appreciation. I don’t really understand those who say that her words are harmless as long as she continues to have sex with you. Clearly it has made you feel awkward and bad...and that’s not harmless. If she is aware of your feelings and keeps saying it anyways that’s not okay and something you should discuss.

6 level 1 scelestus66 · 3 yr. ago 40s

Got to be honest, human genitalia aren't pretty, and if playing with them wasn't so much fun, I suspect the human race would have died out a long time ago! Don't take it personally, it's not like she's singling your penis out specifically.

15 level 1 JereCo96 · 3 yr. ago

Genitals in general are gross but it's pretty disrespectful of her to continue making these comments even when knowing how they make you feel. It's not like it's an important part of her self expression, just comments. She shouldn't have a problem not saying them if it makes you uncomfortable.

6 level 1 [deleted] · 3 yr. ago

She needs to grow up. Sure dicks arent the best thing to look at, however I don’t think they’re gross, and still doesn’t stop me from loving them.

Plus if it’s in her, or in her mouth, she doesn’t have to look at it.

3 level 1 MooreOver · 3 yr. ago Is she a lesbian? 3 level 2 tillerjoe OP · 3 yr. ago

Not that I know of? Lol

2 level 1 SwiFT808- · 3 yr. ago

The reaction from the comments is honestly baffling. If a girl posted about her boyfriend calling her vagina ugly people would flip. It is never ok to insult someone’s body like that. I would have a frank discussion with her about it and let her know that it isn’t ok. Would she be ok with you telling her that her gentians were ugly and that you just put up with it. I hope not.

3 level 1 Sormari_ · 3 yr. ago

You have the right to feel offended, she's kind of being a bitch. If you haven't got nothing positive/ constructive to say, shut up... It's as simple as that.

She is just being rude. You should have a talk about it with her and make her see how her words are making you feel.

3 level 1 decafespressoo · 3 yr. ago

It’s normal to an extent but maybe she’s lesbian if she really thinks they are that ugly. Girls sometimes joke about them being ugly yet they still wanna see them.

1 level 1 evnmoreno · 3 yr. ago

Put it as her wallpaper

1 level 1 imhere4themoosemeat · 3 yr. ago

Wallpaper her room with 1980s era hustler magazine girls using their 2 fingers to spread lips apart and ask her “are those better?

1 level 1 tarnula · 3 yr. ago

How old are you guys? 🤣

1 level 1 bored_german · 3 yr. ago

Penises are ugly. Vaginas are too. I still absolutely love both.

Genitalia isn't pretty and they're not meant to be. As long as she still finds pleasure in playing with your penises, what does it matter?

1 level 1 xrel8569 · 3 yr. ago

Penises are ugly. As long as she puts your ugly penis in her mouth and vagina, you are fine.

1 level 1 SaintRandon · 3 yr. ago Penises are ugly 1 level 1 Delanes_Brain · 3 yr. ago

You should be happy to know that “she puts up with it because she loves me” because that means every other guys is disgusting and she wants nothing to do with them because she doesn't love them. Seriously, penises aren't some beautiful piece of the human body. You are reading too much into it man, let her feel the way she does.

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In Going Dark, The Secret Social Lives of Extremists, Julia Ebner talks about her experience with ‘Trad Wives,’ a women’s group where feminism is banned.

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I went undercover with women social media extremists. They want traditional roles to return In Going Dark, The Secret Social Lives of Extremists, Julia Ebner talks about her experience with ‘Trad Wives,’ a women’s group where feminism is banned.

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here do you think you fall on the SMV scale?’ Kim asks me.

‘Um.’ I google SMV. Sexual Market Value is ‘a measure of desirability for sex in the eyes of a person of the opposite sex’, according to the online male supremacist community Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW). ‘Don’t know,’ I confess. ‘How would I?’

‘Well, it’s hard to judge yourself and often we don’t know exactly how we are perceived. It’s not uncommon to inflate or devalue one’s attractiveness.  But as a woman it is often said our SMV goes up if we control our weight.’ She adds: ‘Ultimately, your SMV can only really be told to you by men, and even then it’s subjective. You might be an 8 to one guy and a 5 to another.’

‘I see. So do you know yours?’

Kim tells me that she went from size 20 to size 14 in one year after joining the Red Pill Women, a female anti-feminist community on the discussion platform Reddit. ‘I am sure it helped, since I am treated differently. But I am not stopping traffic or anything. My face is average or even below average, which probably keeps my SMV low even though I’m skinny now.’

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I stare at her brutal self-evaluation. This is a typical discussion in the forum. Kim is one of roughly 30,000 self-described Red Pill Women or Trad Wives (short for Traditional Wives). Like the MGTOW men’s-rights activists, these women perceive gender roles as the result of ‘sexual economics’. The heterosexual community, they believe, should be seen as a market place, where women are sellers and men buyers of sex. A woman’s single most important resource is therefore, according to them, her SMV.

This radically simplistic view of gender relations is used to legitimise the objectivisation of women; to make it acceptable, even necessary, to rate, trade and replace women – like market goods. This is now my third week talking to the Trad Wives and I have started to get used to their endorsement of openly misogynist statements. ‘Women’s highest value to men is her sexual value, and she’s most valuable when she’s in her sexually pristine state,’ I am repeatedly told. To see where you stand in terms of sexual value, Kim recommends trying some apps that allow you to get rated anonymously: from the old-school Hot or Not to a more sophisticated attractiveness rating service on Photofeeler.

‘Okay […] but what about other factors like being funny, educated or having exotic passions?’ I ask, half knowing the answer.

‘Oh come on. Health, age and femininity are the single most important qualities that appeal to men,’ Kim says. ‘Education, career or workplace does not influence a woman’s SMV. Think about it, they don’t enhance the sexual satisfaction of her male partner.’ This is in line with MGTOW’s assessments: ‘The SMV of a woman is given by birth and her achievements in life do little to increase it,’ they claim.

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‘Oh and your SMV also goes down if your N-count goes up,’ a woman named Marie adds.

‘The what count?’ I ask her, starting to feel a little stupid.

‘The N-count. You know, her cock count,’ Marie explains. ‘While being sexually experienced may increase the physical pleasure of her male partner, being sexually inexperienced actually increases  satisfaction.’ Marie is in her early thirties and married. Apart from being a ‘good wife’, she sees her mission as giving tips on dating, relationships and marriage to fellow Red Pill Women on Reddit. She appears to be one of the most frequently consulted coaches in the community. Many women drill her with questions ranging from ‘How do female duties change upon pregnancy and childbirth?’ to ‘Is chastity before marriage necessary?’

Marie is convinced that feminism has brainwashed men and women into believing that the N-count doesn’t matter. ‘But human nature will always prevail sooner or later,’ she tells me. ‘And human male nature is to have less and less desire for a woman as her N-count rises. Eventually, this lack of desire will turn to outright disgust.’ She gives the example of ‘a smoking hot, 10/10 bombshell beauty’ who has had sex with a thousand men. ‘How many men will want to marry her? Very few. Why?’ Before anyone can respond, she continues: ‘Because women are the gatekeepers of sex. Sex is the main thing that men need from women. Therefore, it’s the prime value that a woman has. Each time she gives this value to a man, her value is diminished.’

The Trad Wives movement is a small but growing internet phenomenon that developed as the female equivalent of The Red Pill (TRP), a Reddit community that the New Hampshire Republican state house member Robert Fisher anonymously founded under the nickname pk_atheist in 2012. TRP promised ‘discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men’ and counted roughly 300,000 subscribers before being banned by Reddit in 2017 for its toxic, dehumanising and threatening content.

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