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Introduction 5
Boldness of Lifestyle
11
Biblical Principles of Conflict Management
17
Guide to the Tutorial Communication in Conflict Management
28
When Just a Nudge of Confrontation is Called For
36 How to Apologize 42
How to Respond to an Angry Person
57
Strategies that Help Resolve Anger
63
Resolving Conflict is Like Repairing a Car
92
ThirdParty Mediation
98
Stages in Group Development
104
A DecisionMaking Strategy For Individuals Or Groups
111
A ThreeStep Approach to Management of Workplace Stress
118
How to Handle Put Downs
126
How to Confront in Supervision with Steve Confronts Carl Audio Tutorial
135
How to Reject Gossip and Other Trash Talk
142
Powerful Anger Buster
71
What It Is and Where Its From
78
Costs of Conflict Benefits of Conflict
86
How to Ask for a Raise
153 Action Plan Forms 160 Telif Hakkı
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Lauren Spencer
Flowers Lyrics: I guess the flowers aren't / Just used for big apologies / I guess I should've been / Conscious how you spoke to me / 'Cause when we fight / You give me space and not communicate
Flowers
Lauren Spencer-Smith
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Flowers Lyrics
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I guess the flowers aren't
Just used for big apologies
I guess I should've been
Conscious how you spoke to me
'Cause when we fight
You give me space and not communicate
And for a while
I thought that's what I should appreciate
Maybe I was holding onto
What I thought you were
But when you think too hard
Eventually it starts to hurt
The version of you in my head
Now I know wasn't true
Young people fall the wrong people
Guess my one was you
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Apologies: What It Takes to Give (and Receive) a Good Apology
Not all apologies are equal. Learn more about what it takes to give and receive a good apology, and Gary Chapman's insight into the five languages of apology.
Photo courtesy of Monroe Alvarez
What It Takes to Give (and Receive) a Good Apology
You mess up. You express remorse. You accept responsibility. You do something to rectify the mess-up. For most of us, the general pillars of apologizing are outlined around second grade. But apologies—the sincere and successful ones—are usually more nuanced than that. Even with the best intentions, we can miss our mark.
When therapist Jennifer Thomas brought the idea up to Gary Chapman (author of The 5 Love Languages—aka relationship gospel), it resonated. A little background: The idea of the five love languages is that how we express affection falls into certain communication styles: receiving gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch. These patterns of behavior are developed over time and determine what we understand as love. (When our love languages match those of our loved one, there’s a: boom! If there’s a mismatch, we feel unloved, insecure, rejected, you name it.)
The similarities between love and apology languages seemed uncanny to Chapman and Thomas. So they did what counselors do: They talked to people. In fact, they asked thousands of Americans two questions: When you apologize, what you typically say or do? And when someone is apologizing to you, what do you want them to say or do?
They collected their findings into When Sorry Isn’t Enough, a guide to using the five apology languages to resolve stubborn conflicts, issue effective apologies, and find forgiveness. The idea is that, maybe, finally, we’ll all be speaking the same language.
A Q&A with Gary Chapman
Q
What are the five languages of apology?
A
One or two apology languages will be required in what any individual considers to be a genuine apology. If you don’t speak that one or those two, then in the recipient’s mind, the apology is incomplete, and your sincerity is questionable. If you miss the types of apology language they respond to, they probably won’t accept your apology.
The five apology languages are:
1. Expressing regret. What you’re trying to say with this apology language is: “I feel bad that my behavior has hurt you, or that my behavior has hurt our relationship”—often using the words “I’m sorry.” But those words should never be spoken alone. If you simply say the word “sorry,” you’re not actually acknowledging that you know what you did wrong. Tell them what you’re sorry for:“I’m sorry that I lost my temper and yelled at you.”
“I’m sorry that I came home an hour and a half late and we’ve missed the program. I know you wanted to go.”
And don’t ever end with the word “but.” If you say, “I’m sorry that I lost my temper and yelled at you, but if you had not done ___, then I would not have yelled,” now you’re no longer apologizing. Instead, you’re blaming the other person for your behavior.
2. Accepting responsibility. A second apology language is actually accepting responsibility for our behavior, often with the words:“I was wrong.”
“I should not have done that.”
“I have no excuse for that.”
“I take full responsibility.”
And again, for some people, this is what they consider to be a sincere apology, and if you don’t acknowledge that what you did was wrong, then in their mind, you’re not sincere. You can say, “I’m sorry,” but they’re struggling with what you’re saying because they don’t sense that you’re really sincere.
3. Making restitution. A third apology language is offering to make restitution, perhaps by saying things like:“How can I make this up to you?”
“I know I’ve hurt you deeply. I regret that, but let me make it up to you.”
“What can I do that would make this right between us?”
And for some people, again this is what they’re waiting for. If you don’t ever offer to make things right, then in their mind, the apology is lame, and they have a hard time forgiving you. But if they see that you are sincere enough to ask, “How can I make this right?” and you’re willing to do something, then they really sense your sincerity.
4. Genuinely repenting. Number four is expressing the desire to change. It’s saying to the other person:“I don’t like what I did. I don’t want to do it again. Can we talk?”
“Can we put together a plan that will help me to stop doing this?”
This is communicating to the person not only that you feel badly about what you did but also that your desire is not to do it again. For some people, if you don’t express the desire to change your behavior, they find it difficult to forgive you, especially if you did the same thing last month, and the month before that, and now here you’re doing it again. And every time, you said, “I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m sorry.” They’re thinking okay, so you’re sorry. What are you going to do about it? What they want is for you express some desire to change the behavior, and many times, if you do that, the two of you can talk and find a way so that you can break that habit.
5. Requesting forgiveness. Number five is actually requesting forgiveness:“Will you forgive me?”
“I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me.”
“I value our relationship, I know I’ve hurt you, and I hope you will forgive me.”
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