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    r/AmItheAsshole • u/throwaways79976 • 1d ago • 7 5 1 1 1

    AITA for not waking my husband up for his 5AM walk? Not the A-hole

    So for the past month, my (36) husband (39) has waking up at 5 every night to have a walk. These walks would take about 2 hours, Side note to mention that this new, he's not trying to lose weight (pretty thin) he's not athletic by nature nor has sports interests or hobbies. infact, he hated doing any type of sport.

    I'm happy for him since it's an overall positive thing. but yesterday, he came home in the evening after working for long hours then stayed up late playing with his phone. I went to bed at 10 after getting done with the mess and everything.

    I woke up by him yelling at me at 7 am asking me why I didn't wake him up for his 5am walk. He said he missed it and I'm responsible for that. I was so confused I said that first of all, he always wakes up by setting his alarm, why should I be expected to wake him up this time. He yelled that he forgot to set his alarm. I said so what? it's no big deal it's not like....he missed an important meaning or something but he got more angry and said that those walks help imrove his health and restore his energy and help him feel better. I made a comment about how missing one walk won't hurt but he unloaded on yelling about how I was trying to prevent him for doing his hobby for some unknown reason. I told him he was sorely mistaken even though I admit that those daily 5am walks around the veteran's park are weird but also his reaction? I really thought it was over the top. He stormed off and went to shower saying I ruined his entire day.

    When he got out he started avoiding and ignoring me. Even when I talk to him directly. he went to work and refused to respond to my calls.

    Really, I'm at a loss like maybe it was something I said about his walks. but I really don't know. he's sulking nonstop as of now and I'm literally about to lose my mind. AITA?

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    u/linniecat Partassipant [1] 1d ago edited 21h ago •

    Perhaps I'm crazy, but tomorrow I'd wake up at 5AM as well, just to see where exactly he goes on those morning walks. But again, perhaps I'm crazy.

    ETA: Personally, I don't think it's cheating, as it doesn't explain the desperation and anger. The stakes seem to be higher, where missing his "walk" has unpleasant consequences. Of course it's possible he's very neurotic about his new routine and you caught him at a bad moment, but his response is suspicious enough to dig a little deeper. Also forgot the judgment: NTA.

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    u/VxGB111 Asshole Enthusiast [6] 1d ago

    For real, that's a totally weird response to being tired and missing a walk... a 2 hour walk...

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    u/Holmes221bBSt Partassipant [1] 23h ago

    Dude this is exactly what happened to my mom. Dad would go on 2 hour morning “jogs”. Later she found out jogging wasn’t the only thing he was doing

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    u/TurtleMonkeySloth 23h ago

    This happened to me. Those Saturday morning runs weren't runs at all.

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    u/AnalTrajectory 23h ago •

    They weren't just the runs, it was diarrhea.

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    Subtle humor is the best 😂

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    u/stingring_vagblaster 20h ago •

    My ex use to go for a cycle early in the mornings. Cycling to his mistress and back.

    One time he shat himself while on his bike. Liquid brown all over him and the bicycle. Terrible memory for him I'm sure, a happy one for me lmao

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    u/glowingballofrock 18h ago

    Just nearly choked on my coffee, thank you

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    u/nightsinwhitesatin07 23h ago

    Me too. The jogs were not jogs at all.

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    u/Senior_Parking6305 23h ago edited 22h ago •

    Hi, avid walker here… not everyone is out cheating on their SO. I try to go for at least 5 miles a night. (I don’t go in the morning, nor a morning person). The practice/routine is an excellent therapy for mental health, has obvious physical health benefits and is very often prescribed by doctors to combat depression.

    ETA: First, OP IS NTA

    second: apologies to anyone offended by outdated terms or labels. I’m learning a lot myself.

    My only point was that infidelity wasn’t the only plausible explanation because the AITA army likes to jump there.

    There is a large population of undiagnosed mental health spectrum disorders that don’t understand why they are different and don’t always know how to manage it. It’s not eh responsibility of the spouse, but if you love someone you may want to consider when they need help.

    When my kids were finally diagnosed as adults, running back through their childhoods, it made a lot of things make sense… you don’t always know

    ETA: for those saying “she would have seen it before” she only says the walking is new, and identified it as a positive change

    You don’t know he hasn’t blown up before You don’t know how long they have been married

    ETA: if my theory is so off, explain yours?

    “Guy is cheating on wife, misses booty call, goes in a rage and calls attention to the fact that he’s gone for two hours every morning”… yeah that’s a logical brain there

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    24.7k votes, 5.0k comments. So for the past month, my (36) husband (39) has waking up at 5 every night to have a walk. These walks would take about …

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    AITA for not waking my husband up for his 5AM walk?

    Not the A-hole Posted by u/throwaways79976 1 day ago 5 7

    AITA for not waking my husband up for his 5AM walk?

    Not the A-hole

    So for the past month, my (36) husband (39) has waking up at 5 every night to have a walk. These walks would take about 2 hours, Side note to mention that this new, he's not trying to lose weight (pretty thin) he's not athletic by nature nor has sports interests or hobbies. infact, he hated doing any type of sport.

    I'm happy for him since it's an overall positive thing. but yesterday, he came home in the evening after working for long hours then stayed up late playing with his phone. I went to bed at 10 after getting done with the mess and everything.

    I woke up by him yelling at me at 7 am asking me why I didn't wake him up for his 5am walk. He said he missed it and I'm responsible for that. I was so confused I said that first of all, he always wakes up by setting his alarm, why should I be expected to wake him up this time. He yelled that he forgot to set his alarm. I said so what? it's no big deal it's not like....he missed an important meaning or something but he got more angry and said that those walks help imrove his health and restore his energy and help him feel better. I made a comment about how missing one walk won't hurt but he unloaded on yelling about how I was trying to prevent him for doing his hobby for some unknown reason. I told him he was sorely mistaken even though I admit that those daily 5am walks around the veteran's park are weird but also his reaction? I really thought it was over the top. He stormed off and went to shower saying I ruined his entire day.

    When he got out he started avoiding and ignoring me. Even when I talk to him directly. he went to work and refused to respond to my calls.

    Really, I'm at a loss like maybe it was something I said about his walks. but I really don't know. he's sulking nonstop as of now and I'm literally about to lose my mind. AITA?

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    Vote level 1 linniecat · 1 day ago · edited 21 hr. ago 10 7 11 Partassipant [1]

    Perhaps I'm crazy, but tomorrow I'd wake up at 5AM as well, just to see where exactly he goes on those morning walks. But again, perhaps I'm crazy.

    ETA: Personally, I don't think it's cheating, as it doesn't explain the desperation and anger. The stakes seem to be higher, where missing his "walk" has unpleasant consequences. Of course it's possible he's very neurotic about his new routine and you caught him at a bad moment, but his response is suspicious enough to dig a little deeper. Also forgot the judgment: NTA.

    56.2k level 2 VxGB111 · 1 day ago

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    For real, that's a totally weird response to being tired and missing a walk... a 2 hour walk...

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    level 2 Kup123 · 1 day ago

    Yeah I'm sitting here wondering why he has to see his drug dealer or mistress at 5am.

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    level 2 multicats · 1 day ago

    I’ve watched enough investigation discovery to know that he’s likely out stalking and murdering college girls.

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    level 2 Smil3yAngel · 1 day ago

    First, NTA. It's his routine, so it's his responsibility to set an alarm, not yours.

    Second, I agree that you need to follow him. No one goes for walks at 5am for 2hrs and flips out when they miss one day, especially when it's their own fault for missing that day.

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    level 2 AzureFlare4 · 1 day ago

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    The fact he got so intense about missing one is what makes it stink for me. First off it’s one walk, that’s not going to be the be all and end all for your hobby or exercise, second of all it’s 5 am , what the hell stops you enjoying your walk during the day or evening, or night?

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    A 36-year-old reddit user brought up an interesting story about her husband (39), and this story is sure going to tickle your eyes.

    AITA for not waking my husband up for his 5AM walk?

    So for the past month, my (36) husband (39) has waking up at 5 every night to have a walk. These walks would take about 2 hours, Side note to mention that this new, he’s not trying to lose weight (pretty thin) he’s not athletic by nature nor has sports interests or hobbies. infact, he hated doing any type of sport.

    I’m happy for him since it’s an overall positive thing. but yesterday, he came home in the evening after working for long hours then stayed up late playing with his phone. I went to bed at 10 after getting done with the mess and everything.

    I woke up by him yelling at me at 7 am asking me why I didn’t wake him up for his 5am walk. He said he missed it and I’m responsible for that. I was so confused I said that first of all, he always wakes up by setting his alarm, why should I be expected to wake him up this time. He yelled that he forgot to set his alarm. I said so what? it’s no big deal it’s not like….he missed an important meaning or something but he got more angry and said that those walks help imrove his health and restore his energy and help him feel better.

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    I made a comment about how missing one walk won’t hurt but he unloaded on yelling about how I was trying to prevent him for doing his hobby for some unknown reason. I told him he was sorely mistaken even though I admit that those daily 5am walks around the veteran’s park are weird but also his reaction? I really thought it was over the top. He stormed off and went to shower saying I ruined his entire day.

    When he got out he started avoiding and ignoring me. Even when I talk to him directly. he went to work and refused to respond to my calls.

    Really, I’m at a loss like maybe it was something I said about his walks. but I really don’t know. he’s sulking nonstop as of now and I’m literally about to lose my mind. AITA?

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