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    AITA for going home after I got told to sleep on the floor? : AmItheAsshole

    21.9k votes, 3.0k comments. I'll preface this by saying that my husband (33) has a friend "Carl" (33) who he considers to be one of his closest …

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    AITA for going home after I got told to sleep on the floor?

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    AITA for going home after I got told to sleep on the floor?

    I'll preface this by saying that my husband (33) has a friend "Carl" (33) who he considers to be one of his closest friends. My husband sometimes calls Carl his "nicotine" because of how much he misses him and wants to spend time with him, they do everything together, they're even co workers working the same job.

    Unfortunately, Carlos's wife passed away from cancer 3 months ago which caused him to distance himself. My husband felt devastated for him, he recently started spending more time with him and brought him meals and new clothes.

    We planned a 3 day vacation to another state. I made a hotel reservation for 2. Unbeknownst to me, my husband had invited Carl to come with us, this made me upset because it spolied the entire vacation (not trying to be dramatic) I only found out when he went to pick him up. I sucked it up after my husband explained that Carl is a recent widower who's been wallowing in grief for so long and needed this vacation. The problem is money is tight and since Carl hasn't worked eversince his wife passed he couldn't pay for his own room and we didn't have a budget for it.

    My husband said we should just share one room and I again sucked it since he said we'd be out all day on the beach anyway. First night, I was in bed when my husband and Carl got back, I got woken up by my husband telling me to get out of bed and sleep on thd mattress he put for me on the floor and he and Carl would take the bed. I asked if he was serious and he asked what else is he supposed to do, he said Carl was a guest we can't let him sleep on the floor and at the same time I can't share a bed with Carl while he (my husband) sleep on the floor. I told him I didn't sign up for this but he told me to suck it and tried to pull "Carl is a widower" card. I told Carl to get out then got up and got dressed to go home. My husband started yelling me calling me irrational but I wasn't having it. I left the hotel and traveled back home. Carl didn't say anything when he saw me leave except that I was making this non-issue an issue.

    They got back and my husband refused to even talk about but still said I ruined this for Carl and us and acted abhorrently and disgustingly. I admit Carl is struggling and I mightve ruined this for him but I didn't even know he was coming.

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    Vote level 1 Thediciplematt · 14 hr. ago Craptain [165] NTA

    Uh.. no shade here. I think your husband might be into men, specifically Carl.

    I’m not going to throw my wife to the curb for a friend. Compassion and empathy are one thing but this is just plain insanity.

    Might want to get some therapy or have some hard convos.

    49.7k level 2 Francie1966 · 14 hr. ago

    Might want to get a divorce lawyer.

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    When I got into family law a bit over a decade ago, I was shocked by how many gay men were in marriages with women who had no idea. Young women. Women who were sexually experienced. One of my colleagues turned representing women divorcing men who had been hiding/unwilling to come to terms with their sexuality into a cottage industry. Women are so used to sacrificing good sex for companionship and financial stability that they're strapping themselves into these horrible situations. And I have absolutely no problem with the companion marriages where, like, one half of the couple is gay and the other wants a family and stability and sex isn't important and everyone carries on with their lives. But the key is that everyone is fully aware and consenting to the arrangement. NTA.

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    level 2 Buffy_Geek · 13 hr. ago

    I agree, idk how Carl feels but the husband suggesting they share a bed & upping he closeness just after his wife has died is dodgy as hell.

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    level 2 heatherlj88 · 13 hr. ago

    I would point blank be asking my husband if he’s into Carl. At no time is it appropriate to invite someone on a couples vacay without even discussing it with your partner, and then, wake that partner up and tell them to sleep on the floor. What the fuck.

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